Professor Pozzulo’s Pick (Feb, 2026)
Professor Pozzulo’s Pick (February, 2026) Defy: The Power of No in a World that Demands Yes by Dr. Sunita Sah (2025, published by One World) My take: Do you find yourself saying, “yes”, when you really want to say, “no”. In Defy: The Power of No in a World that Demands Yes, Dr. Sah will help you understand why we acquiesce and how we can say “no”. She helps you recognize the tension that surfaces and the stages of when the answer is a “true no”. This book is about learning to live in accordance with your values, that in turn, can support your well-being. Sah defines defiance as “acting in accordance with your true values when there is pressure to do otherwise”. She notes five stages of defiance; Stage 1 = tension Stage 2 = acknowledgement to ourselves Stage 3 = escalation (vocalize to others) Stage 4 = threat of non-compliance Stage 5 = act of defiance She highlights several real-world examples as how “going along” or complying can have dire consequences. Intriguingly, when you ...